Huge argument w/girlfriend....

[ZUKI_Ang]

I had a huge argument with girl friend last night over signing a PRENUP or NOT.

What would you guys do? Sign a Prenup or not? and why?

I said yes, because if I would ever get divorce I would like to save myself from a messy and painful courtroom fights. Don't get me wrong I would prefer an friendly separtaion or at least an out of court settlement. But you never know what can happend. What do you think?

[RichieRich]

prenup. but its easier said then done. women get all crazy when you mention one cause they usually marry to be secure. the only way my wife is getting a dime is if we have a kid. i will not let some fuckin women take half of what i busted my ass all my life for. fuck 'em. same thing works vice versa.

[ism409]

sounds like you plan to get divorced before you even get married..

[ezpunkx]

thats the thing, i agree prenups are good (unles she's loaded and your not :) ) BUT signing a prenup is the like an oxy moron... the point of getting married is that you will be together forever, and by signing a prenup your basically saying your not really sure if your going to be together forever..

[High_Revs_17]

Take this to "Legal Corner", they'll give ya the facts/details.

[ism409]

Take this to "Legal Corner", they'll give ya the facts/details.
That forum is :gay: This thread belongs right here..

[ZUKI_Ang]

sounds like you plan to get divorced before you even get married..

no, no, no... the question was aked by her.. would you want to sign a prenut? I thought about and said yes. I would only do it to protect both our interest and my child if any.

[RichieRich]

its not that "your planning on not staying together forever" its actually "covering your ass if you find out the dirty slut that deserves none of your assets is sleeping around behind your back." think about it.

[pmdez]

thats the thing, i agree prenups are good (unles she's loaded and your not :) ) BUT signing a prenup is the like an oxy moron... the point of getting married is that you will be together forever, and by signing a prenup your basically saying your not really sure if your going to be together forever..

exactly....why bother getting married in the first place!

[BIGLIZ34]

smart idea but still a touchy subject. i mean its just realistic..... this generation is not like our parents and grandparents...that forever shit is hard to come by. i want a prenup. i be damn if ima let any loser benifit from my sweat....

[Das Uberdog]

thats the thing, i agree prenups are good (unles she's loaded and your not :) ) BUT signing a prenup is the like an oxy moron... the point of getting married is that you will be together forever, and by signing a prenup your basically saying your not really sure if your going to be together forever..

exactly....why bother getting married in the first place!

marriage in our society is trite & meaningless - except for the legal benefits.

[pmdez]

how about if both people are on the same level financially meaning they both own there own car which was there's before marriage etc. only thing they have bought together is a house. isn't it an unwritten rule that you split that in half and go your seperate ways. if there's a child involved you pay child support and it's done? why would it even have to get ugly??

[ism409]

That is because our generation (including myself) are a bunch of selfish fucks. ME ME ME..

[xb9rider]

no comment

[RichieRich]

That is because our generation (including myself) are a bunch of selfish fucks. ME ME ME..

damn fuckin straight. i love myself and i deserve the world.

[pmdez]

prenup. but its easier said then done. women get all crazy when you mention one cause they usually marry to be secure. the only way my wife is getting a dime is if we have a kid. i will not let some fuckin women take half of what i busted my ass all my life for. fuck 'em. same thing works vice versa.

i know there are ALOT of golddiggers out there, but i think most woman marry for love too. if i was to get a divorce....he can keep the shit that came with him before we got married, i'll take what belongs to me & we can split the house b/c we BOTH put $ and work into that.
i wouldn't take shit that didn't belong to me in the first place.

[pmdez]

sounds like you plan to get divorced before you even get married..

no, no, no... the question was aked by her.. would you want to sign a prenut? I thought about and said yes. I would only do it to protect both our interest and my child if any.

i didn't ask you anything you voluntarily provided that info. after watching the primetime show: war of the roses last night. anyone catch the show on channel 7 @ 9 p.m.???

[xb9rider]

prenup. but its easier said then done. women get all crazy when you mention one cause they usually marry to be secure. the only way my wife is getting a dime is if we have a kid. i will not let some fuckin women take half of what i busted my ass all my life for. fuck 'em. same thing works vice versa.

i know there are ALOT of golddiggers out there, but i think most woman marry for love too. if i was to get a divorce....he can keep the shit that came with him before we got married, i'll take what belongs to me & we can split the house b/c we BOTH put $ and work into that.
i wouldn't take shit that didn't belong to me in the first place.

thats why prenups are made. what u are saying now can change when u get a divorce.

[Javier]

i agree with my brother brujah. sentiments change. especially after a bitter divorce.

vwturbo

[RichieRich]

i agree with my brother brujah. sentiments change. especially after a bitter divorce.

vwturbo

amen. the one you love can turn into your arch enemy. shit gets fucked up when theres money involved.

[mpr138]

It's like insurance. You don't buy a bike or car expecting to get in an accident, but stuff happens. People change, and with most people today you need to CYA.

[jcblitz]

Just pull a Scott Peterson.

[High_Revs_17]

BUT signing a prenup is the like an oxy moron... the point of getting married is that you will be together forever, and by signing a prenup your basically saying your not really sure if your going to be together forever..

Good point on the moral aspect.

But no one can guarantee that they will be together forever so it's a insurance policy like any other, you never plan or hope to use it but it's a lifesaver if/when the time comes. :roll:



ZUKI_Ang , :scratch: I don't understand, if she offered it and you said yes then what was the fight about?

I was assuming you offered it to her and she flipped out.

[High_Revs_17]

Take this to "Legal Corner", they'll give ya the facts/details.
That forum is :gay: This thread belongs right here..

Gay or not my point is most of us here can only offer a good opinion. Zc_Sandman knows the concrete facts regarding this issue.

[ism409]

Take this to "Legal Corner", they'll give ya the facts/details.
That forum is :gay: This thread belongs right here..

Gay or not my point is most of us here can only offer a good opinion. Zc_Sandman knows the concrete facts regarding this issue.
He wasn't asking for legal advice.

[Das Uberdog]

Just pull a Scott Peterson.

:LOL:

[drub0y]

I personally will require a pre-nup. It will include things that are in her best interest as well, but there's no way someone is walking away with my hard earned money. For example, if it's mutual irreconcialable differences then she gets like 30%. If she cheats on me she gets 0%. If I cheat on her she gets 50%. Shit like that.

[pmdez]

Good point on the moral aspect.

But no one can guarantee that they will be together forever so it's a insurance policy like any other, you never plan or hope to use it but it's a lifesaver if/when the time comes. :roll:



ZUKI_Ang , :scratch: I don't get it, if she offered it what was the fight about, did you say no? And if so, why?

I was assuming you offered it to her and she flipped out.

noone's throwing a fit, it's merely a BIG difference in opinion that's all...i respect his decision in wanting to sign a prenup and he should respect mine for not wanting to sign one b/c that's only fair. i'm self-sufficient, independent, will be making as much $$ if not more after i'm done with my master's program, have my car, have my motorcycle (basically i have everything he has if not more) what could i possible take from him??? is my question. it's an insult. now if he worked his ass off & had lots of $$$ i could understand where a prenup might come into play but it's NOT like that at all.

either way we had decided a long time ago that we wouldn't even ponder marriage for at least another 3 years which is really fine with me because i'm not a fan AT ALL of marriage. but get this guys?

now he's pissed b/c i told him this could all be resolved by not getting married. so he's mad b/c i won't marry his ass! go figure...we can live together and not get married right?

[High_Revs_17]

He wasn't asking for legal advice.

"Prenup or not? and why?"...the questions regarding this issue pertains to legal advice due to the facts of what it is and why it should/'nt be used.

[allbikesbiker]

I think prenups are good if one is affluent and the other is not.
prior assets should be kept by the party who aquired them.
collective assests, divided equally.
if one party was the consumate care giver and , due to that fact,
lost wages and/or educational or advancement opportunities because of that,
they should be compensated as such.. i.e.
if they reasonably were headed to law school and stopped to care for a child..
they should get lost wages.. it happens all the time in divorce settlements.
other than that.
anything mutually agreed on, which is specific to the relationship, should also be added.

in short:
if you're having a problem agreeing on what to put in a prenup, or
to have one at all.. there are already too many obstacles in this relationship.
I would give it a breather, lighten up, go back to just 'dating'.
even if you live together.. just LIGHTEN up.
it may save the relationship!
throw the thoughts of a prenup out the window and reflect on what IS important RIGHT NOW.
which is, to be happy, together and work towards a future.

[1qwikSV]

He wasn't asking for legal advice.

"Prenup or not? and why?"...the questions regarding this issue pertains to legal advice due to the facts of what it is and why it should/'nt be used.


What would you guys do?

Hes asking for everyones opinion...not the facts behind it. :P :wink: :lol:

[pmdez]

I think prenups are good if one is affluent and the other is not.
prior assets should be kept by the party who aquired them.
collective assests, divided equally.
if one party was the consumate care giver and , due to that fact,
lost wages and/or educational or advancement opportunities because of that,
they should be compensated as such.. i.e.
if they reasonably were headed to law school and stopped to care for a child..
they should get lost wages.. it happens all the time in divorce settlements.
other than that.
anything mutually agreed on, which is specific to the relationship, should also be added.

in short:
if you're having a problem agreeing on what to put in a prenup, or
to have one at all.. there are already too many obstacles in this relationship.
I would give it a breather, lighten up, go back to just 'dating'.
even if you live together.. just LIGHTEN up.
it may save the relationship!
throw the thoughts of a prenup out the window and reflect on what IS important RIGHT NOW.
which is, to be happy, together and work towards a future.

i couldn't have said it any better :thumbup:

[Vinny]

marriage in our society is trite & meaningless - except for the legal benefits.

Speak for yourself. I'm happily married.

[allbikesbiker]

pmdez:
thanks but..

am I missing something?

is it pmdez and SUKI_ang?

'cause if it is... ya know guys...

SUKI , you're a scorpio . like me ;)
PM.. you're a Sagittarius. like my ex :(

oil and water ... guys.. it's a slippery slope :)
If you don't beleive in astrology, don't click the links and
work it out your own way.
me personally...
well, read on.
I don't WANT to believe. it just happens to be true in MY Life.
just my opinion.
and I read the stuff AFTER the end of #2..!!

I've dated THREE girls with the same D.O.B. 12-4-
two of them the exact date 12-4-66
of course... not knowing this in advance.
all ending in a very heavy crash and burn ending..
oh well, that 's just me
hope it works for you.
(if I'm attracted to a woman, right off.. I ask DOB first,
then walk away if it's a Sag, my heart can't take it anymore)

links:
http://www.sexualastrology.com/sexual_compatibility_scorpio_sagittarius.html
http://www.starlightastrology.com/sag-sco.htm

[Ant]

Well, I got nothing to my name so I personally, would be very against a pre nup. lol

[Tick_9se7en3]

Prenup all the way. Divorce rates are over 50% these days. I'm not getting married without one, my parents are divorced for about 8yrs now and it's still messy as hell. Prenup saves you from most of the BS.

[Das Uberdog]

marriage in our society is trite & meaningless - except for the legal benefits.

Speak for yourself. I'm happily married.

please don't get me wrong, i don't mean that marriage is negative or bad. would you say that you are happy simply because you are married, or because you are with someone who you love? i'd say it's more likely the latter - marriage is just a contract with some showy romantic notions, IMHO.

what's the difference between a couple that stays together for life without marrying, and a couple who marries early and stays together for life?

[pmdez]

pmdez:
thanks but..

am I missing something?

is it pmdez and SUKI_ang?

'cause if it is... ya know guys...

SUKI , you're a scorpio . like me ;)
PM.. you're a Sagittarius. like my ex :(

oil and water ... guys.. it's a slippery slope :)
If you don't beleive in astrology, don't click the links and
work it out your own way.
me personally...
well, read on.
I don't WANT to believe. it just happens to be true in MY Life.
just my opinion.
and I read the stuff AFTER the end of #2..!!

I've dated THREE girls with the same D.O.B. 12-4-
two of them the exact date 12-4-66
of course... not knowing this in advance.
all ending in a very heavy crash and burn ending..
oh well, that 's just me
hope it works for you.
(if I'm attracted to a woman, right off.. I ask DOB first,
then walk away if it's a Sag, my heart can't take it anymore)

links:
http://www.sexualastrology.com/sexual_compatibility_scorpio_sagittarius.html
http://www.starlightastrology.com/sag-sco.htm


actually we're both sagittarius....i don't believe in astrology but he does....i'd be curious to see what it says about a sag-sag relationship though??

[hekktore]

Marriage is like people and diets:

Not all diets work on everybody, you have to find the right diet/excercise combo that works for your specific body-type.

So for anyone that says marriages are meaningless and trite (or just plain negative), I would have to guess you just haven't found the right "combo"


By the way, I'm an aries..... you know, incase things don't work out (wink, wink) :lol:

ha,ha, com'on, jus kiddin
:twisted:
or am I?

[drub0y]

please don't get me wrong, i don't mean that marriage is negative or bad. would you say that you are happy simply because you are married, or because you are with someone who you love? i'd say it's more likely the latter - marriage is just a contract with some showy romantic notions, IMHO.

what's the difference between a couple that stays together for life without marrying, and a couple who marries early and stays together for life?
:clap:

If you need a piece of paper to tell you that your love is official, then that's a problem right there. If you're willing to sign that piece of paper, why not sign the prenup as well? You're entering a legal binding when you get married anyway, the prenup just goes on to further solidify what happens should that legal binding need to be broken.

[High_Revs_17]

noone's throwing a fit, it's merely a BIG difference in opinion that's all...i respect his decision in wanting to sign a prenup and he should respect mine for not wanting to sign one b/c that's only fair. i'm self-sufficient, independent, will be making as much $$ if not more after i'm done with my master's program, have my car, have my motorcycle (basically i have everything he has if not more) what could i possible take from him??? is my question. it's an insult. now if he worked his ass off & had lots of $$$ i could understand where a prenup might come into play but it's NOT like that at all.

either way we had decided a long time ago that we wouldn't even ponder marriage for at least another 3 years which is really fine with me because i'm not a fan AT ALL of marriage. but get this guys?

now he's pissed b/c i told him this could all be resolved by not getting married. so he's mad b/c i won't marry his ass! go figure...we can live together and not get married right?

:arrow: Overall regarding your comments here it seems to be that the two of you are playing a dangerous CONTROL game and that's the absolute worst way to manage a relationship.

You feel it's an "insult" to you that he wants to sign but, "i'm not a fan at AT ALL of marriage" isn't to him...double standard here.

"Fair" or "Insult" regarding your direct comments does not sustain valor in this issue. You just proved that you have nothing to fear by agreeing to sign regarding your capital, so you have nothing to lose either way. But if you don't you can still attain his capital and liquidate it for personal gain, so in signing it's still a win-win deal for you. Other than the control issue I don't understand why you would not agree with him to begin with, there's no logical reason for this.

Sure you guys can live together forever, people do it every day. Basically, marriage is only a legal way to bind two people in love, that's all. 8-)

[Vinny]

marriage in our society is trite & meaningless - except for the legal benefits.

Speak for yourself. I'm happily married.

please don't get me wrong, i don't mean that marriage is negative or bad. would you say that you are happy simply because you are married, or because you are with someone who you love? i'd say it's more likely the latter - marriage is just a contract with some showy romantic notions, IMHO.

what's the difference between a couple that stays together for life without marrying, and a couple who marries early and stays together for life?

We digress from the original topic, but I *do* in theory agree about the "contract" statement. However, in my particular case, I love my wife and am very lucky to have someone like her. I know it sounds sappy and 'gay' (GFY if you think so :lol: ), but none of you know the circumstances. She's had my back and stood by me through some seriously fucked up shit. I think there are few women out there who would have the same dedication.

IMO, from seeing what my brother's going through (he's 22, been serious with a girl for a couple years), I WOULD and DO NOT want to be in the dating scene right now. Many of the stories I've heard about some of the women out there are superficial, high-maintenance, annoying, bossy, controlling, homewreckers, and hostile. Who wants to be bothered with that bullshit?

Don't get me wrong -- for every bad chick there's five guys with the same features. It's just that from my pov (which is worthless to anyone but me ;) ), dating sucks and that there is a lot of head games and 'cover your ass'.

Now, back to the topic:

For the guy who posted the question about the prenup -- I kind of have mixed feelings about them. They're tricky because prenups kinda equal contractual escape clauses. "If we break up, you can't take my Benz and the 100K in the bank. You can have the dog, the Audi, and the $5k in cash."

Do you trust your fiancee? Do you feel that if things got rough and either of you wanted out, that she'd want your cash instead of trying to rectify the original problem of why you wanted to break up in the first place? Here's an amusing question -- do you have anything she'd actually WANT? :lol:
I know I don't have anything special to offer my wife if we went through that. She'd get the broken Two Brothers Exhaust I have and a cracked fairing.

:D

[Vinny]

If you need a piece of paper to tell you that your love is official, then that's a problem right there.

Agreed. However, I didn't need my child growing up in a household where her parents had different last names because they didn't want to get married "on paper". I don't do things like that, nor will I teach my child to do things like that.

[drub0y]

If you need a piece of paper to tell you that your love is official, then that's a problem right there.

Agreed. However, I didn't need my child growing up in a household where her parents had different last names because they didn't want to get married "on paper". I don't do things like that, nor will I teach my child to do things like that.
Well see, I guess my next question would be, what's so wrong with that?? How is that a bad thing? :scratch2:

Think about it, there's nothing wrong with it. As for the child, it doesn't know any better. The child sees that you love your wife and that your wife loves you. He/she doesn't know anything about marriage. The only time this becomes a problem is when they begin to grow up and outside opinions from other people begin to influence them. And you know what I say about other people's opinions on one's personal matters? Fuck them it's none of their business how you live your life.

[Vinny]

If you need a piece of paper to tell you that your love is official, then that's a problem right there.

Agreed. However, I didn't need my child growing up in a household where her parents had different last names because they didn't want to get married "on paper". I don't do things like that, nor will I teach my child to do things like that.
Well see, I guess my next question would be, what's so wrong with that?? How is that a bad thing? :scratch2:

Think about it, there's nothing wrong with it. As for the child, it doesn't know any better. The child sees that you love your wife and that your wife loves you. He/she doesn't know anything about marriage. The only time this becomes a problem is when they begin to grow up and outside opinions from other people begin to influence them. And you know what I say about other people's opinions on one's personal matters? Fuck them it's none of their business how you live your life.

Understood. I don't care about what other people think -- it's merely about how I want to raise my child.

[Knifeguy]

I personally wouldn't have the balls to ask for one, but then again, I didn't have any money before I got married. Maybe my views would change if I was loaded. You have to work hard at marriage, a prenup is like an easy out in the back of your mind.
I do know this much:
Most of you people don't know dick about the legal system regarding divorce. I don't know how different NJ is from NY, but I suspect they are similar. It doesn't usually matter who does the cheating unless child custody is an issue, it gets split, period.

When you go thru a divorce, very very few are handled with 100% calm and curteous actions. People get nasty, I don't care how nice they are before. Your attorneys, will make sure of it. I know of at least half a dozen divorces, and I have heard stunts pulled that will blow your mind.

Marriage is something everyone has to try, at least once. If it works, it's great. If not, then so you tried it. It's not for everyone.

[pmdez]

noone's throwing a fit, it's merely a BIG difference in opinion that's all...i respect his decision in wanting to sign a prenup and he should respect mine for not wanting to sign one b/c that's only fair. i'm self-sufficient, independent, will be making as much $$ if not more after i'm done with my master's program, have my car, have my motorcycle (basically i have everything he has if not more) what could i possible take from him??? is my question. it's an insult. now if he worked his ass off & had lots of $$$ i could understand where a prenup might come into play but it's NOT like that at all.

either way we had decided a long time ago that we wouldn't even ponder marriage for at least another 3 years which is really fine with me because i'm not a fan AT ALL of marriage. but get this guys?

now he's pissed b/c i told him this could all be resolved by not getting married. so he's mad b/c i won't marry his ass! go figure...we can live together and not get married right?

:arrow: Overall regarding your comments here it seems to be that the two of you are playing a dangerous CONTROL game and that's the absolute worst way to manage a relationship.

You feel it's an "insult" to you that he wants to sign but, "i'm not a fan at AT ALL of marriage" isn't to him...double standard here.

"Fair" or "Insult" regarding your direct comments does not sustain valor in this issue. You just proved that you have nothing to fear by agreeing to sign regarding your capital, so you have nothing to lose either way. But if you don't you can still attain his capital and liquidate it for personal gain, so in signing it's still a win-win deal for you. Other than the control issue I don't understand why you would not agree with him to begin with, there's no logical reason for this.

Sure you guys can live together forever, people do it every day. Basically, marriage is only a legal way to bind two people in love, that's all. 8-)

OK....bottom line...if i was going through a divorce i WOULDN'T take ANYTHING from him that he had before the marriage...plain & simple...and i would trust him not to do the same... (call me naive if you'd like). i think it only reasonable we split the house right? i don't need anyone supporting my ass...it's why i have my own career.

when my parents finally got a divorce, (and it was ugly in the sense that my mom can't stand my dad), she still took NOTHING from him...didn't ask him for a penny...not even child support and vice versa. i guess i just don't understand the whole ugliness of a divorce. she took what was hers, left him his stuff and there was NO ARGUING about who keeps what!!

[Dj]

prenup.....women are snakes.

or better yet....just buy her a dildo and send her on her way.

[RichieRich]

prenup.....women are snakes.

or better yet....just buy her a dildo and send her on her way.

YOUR MOTHER DID JUST FINE.

[Dj]

prenup.....women are snakes.

or better yet....just buy her a dildo and send her on her way.

YOUR MOTHER DID JUST FINE.

:scratch2:

[MrQuickR1]

Just tell her to sign the fuckin paper and anything you invest or come into after that will be split. Fucken women I tell ya! :roll:

[E=mc What?]

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
Prenup :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

she can have shit, not even a pot to piss in, u on the other hand can be loaded, worth say 4 Million. and ur house worth 2 Million. u can have 7 cars, 50G's + each. once u get married and dont sign a Prenup WITH the Females MENTALITY these days, ur basically FUCKED. half or more of everything u own goes to her leavin ur ass on the outside lookin in sayin "I WISHED I SHOULDA COULDA" to late buddy cuz ur assed out oh and if u got kids ur done u wont have a pot to piss in now.

i wouldnt sign shit... some people here know what i got and what im worth, but i didnt have that when i was with Brenda for the 1st 10 years, we recently got it about a year ago... me and brenda did everything 2gether, went from rags to riches 2gether, not 1 by ourself... to ME fukk a prenup... cuz the way i see it the first 27 years of my life i didnt have shit,up till the last 2 years, so whats another 27 + years without shit again...




but just like Martin Lawrence said. "UMM LETS JUST SAY I CAME INTO THE RELATIONSHIP WITH 5 BILLION DOLLARS, AND YOU, YOU CAME INTO THE RELATIONSHIP WITH JUST, JUST, UMMM, JUST A BAG, DO U THINK UR ENTITLED TO ANY OF THE 5 BILLION DOLLARS" :lol: :lol:

[Vinny]

but just like Martin Lawrence said. "UMM LETS JUST SAY I CAME INTO THE RELATIONSHIP WITH 5 BILLION DOLLARS, AND YOU, YOU CAME INTO THE RELATIONSHIP WITH JUST, JUST, UMMM, JUST A BAG, DO U THINK UR ENTITLED TO ANY OF THE 5 BILLION DOLLARS" :lol: :lol:

:ROFL:

[njf4i]

Well i'm getting into this one a lttle late but I would have a prenup with my girlfreind if we got married.

It has nothing to do with me thinking it won't last, or her just trying to take me for all i'm worth if I screw up. It has to do with the fact that I am currently taking over a family buisness.

My dad satrted the comapny 18 years ago and kept it going with my mom and all his hard work. So he put his life into this, and in no way would I want any sneaky crappy lawyer going after it if we gat a divorce.

Other than that, if I didn't have that then I wouldn't sign one because I don't shit else.

[ZUKI_Ang]

okay guys... i just convinced her to sign a prenup.



:lol:

Just kidding... anyways thanks for all your opinions. :thumblef:

who's riding tonight?

[pmdez]

Well i'm getting into this one a lttle late but I would have a prenup with my girlfreind if we got married.

It has nothing to do with me thinking it won't last, or her just trying to take me for all i'm worth if I screw up. It has to do with the fact that I am currently taking over a family buisness.

My dad satrted the comapny 18 years ago and kept it going with my mom and all his hard work. So he put his life into this, and in no way would I want any sneaky crappy lawyer going after it if we gat a divorce.

Other than that, if I didn't have that then I wouldn't sign one because I don't shit else.

a prenup in your case (fam business) is definately understandable.

[E=mc What?]

okay guys... i just convinced her to sign a prenup.



:lol:

Just kidding... anyways thanks for all your opinions. :thumblef:

who's riding tonight?

dude u 2 gettin marriend and couldnt call to tell me :twak:
:lol:

[Smakmeup]

Girl has nothing when coming into relationship...NOTHING...NADA, no job, no money

Man has house, cars, money, motorcycles

Man works, woman stays home for ten years.

Woman wants divorce.

man must pay alimony, child support(not until 18, but till the child graduates from college, grad school), give up home, and split bank accounts in half..if not more.

WELCOME TO NEW JERSEY...a community property state.

those are facts!!

But I see no need for a prenup<~~SARCASM is you couldn't tell

I like the Peterson comment!

[ZUKI_Ang]

no way man... marriage is not even on the radar... it was a stupid show we saw last night on tv. long story.

[E=mc What?]

no way man... marriage is not even on the radar... it was a stupid show we saw last night on tv. long story.

so like --- whens the wedding :lol:

[ZUKI_Ang]

no way man... marriage is not even on the radar... it was a stupid show we saw last night on tv. long story.

so like --- whens the wedding :lol:


i guess when she signs the prenup. :ROFL:

[ekuhn]

If i was to get married tomorrow and divorced the day after and no prenup was signed it wouldnt do any good anyway, becuase if she still entitled to half....I have nothing so...Half of nothing is still nothing.

[ZUKI_Ang]

If i was to get married tomorrow and divorced the day after and no prenup was signed it wouldnt do any good anyway, becuase if she still entitled to half....I have nothing so...Half of nothing is still nothing.

right on.... :drunken:

[pmdez]

no way man... marriage is not even on the radar... it was a stupid show we saw last night on tv. long story.

so like --- whens the wedding :lol:


:lol: by the looks of it...never :lol:

[03Gsxr750]

kill the bitch (not you patty)its cheaper than going to court.... :twisted:

[TonyK]

http://www.tristatesportbikes.com/forum/download.php?id=6747

[Beans]

If i was to get married tomorrow and divorced the day after and no prenup was signed it wouldnt do any good anyway, becuase if she still entitled to half....I have nothing so...Half of nothing is still nothing.
But if the day you decide to get divorced, a distant rich uncle kickes the bucket and leaves his millions to you, she would be entitled to half, even though she decided to divorse you before finding out.

I think I would opt for a prenup when the time comes.
The thing that scares me is child support laws. I would never be a deadbeat dad but the way they work is to protect the child.
So how is it that Mick Jagger had to pay millions in child support to a woman that made most likely no more then $30,000 a year?
She was a hook-up, not a long term girlfriend. :scratch2:
The child needed all that money to live in the style it was accustomed to. :scratch2: :scratch2:

[BigTuna]

the sad fact is 50% of marriages end up in divorce. I am in that 50%. Fortunately my ex and I were able to sit down, divide everything up and go our own ways. I didn't want to let it get ugly, just move forward with my life. we are the few that are still amicable.

Unfortunately not everyone takes that appraoch and most divorces get ugly. I am watching a buddy spend his life savings on attorney fees just to screw his ex wife.....people get stupid when emotional.

i undertsand the idea of a prenup, but even though i am divorced i would not ask for one if i were to get remarried. if you have doubts about your future spouse, don't get married.....

[jcblitz]

Here's my prenup:

http://www.firearmscanada.ca/gun_pictures/CZ_97_B_.jpg +
http://www.envirogreen.com.au/products/fert_ge_lime.jpg +http://www.fastforwardconcepts.com/giffiles/72lrg/SHOVEL.jpg

[morpheus6d9]

it depends

[BillAce]

Before I got married, I told my wife I wanted a pre-nup. Since I had nothing worthwhile she laughed and agreed to sign one. I got a bar napkin wrote our names, Pre-nup and signed the bottom. She signed it and told me I could fill in whatever I want. On every anniversary, she has to fit into her wedding dress now.

Pre-nup's are definitely worth it!

[sweet_gixxer750]

I can see signing a prenup if you were worth Millions and wasn't with the person long.

[RichieRich]

WOMEN ARE THIEVES

[sweet_gixxer750]

WOMEN ARE THIEVES


Well if women are THIEVES you men make us do it then.

[Qetesh]

I go away for a week and this is what happens :ROFL: I don't believe in prenups, but that's my personal pref. You're f**cked either way IMO.

[cbigclarke]

[quote=allbikesbiker]


actually we're both sagittarius....i don't believe in astrology but he does....i'd be curious to see what it says about a sag-sag relationship though??
i knew i liked you guys for some reason